Am I Called to Lead?

What Nehemiah Teaches Us About Discerning God’s Call 

Last updated: March 13, 2026

Am I Called to Lead?

How do we know when God is calling us to lead or serve? And how can we be prepared?

So often as Christians, we want to impact others for Christ, but we don’t know where to begin. When we see an opportunity, we struggle to discern God’s call. We question our gifts. We doubt our abilities.

If you’re wondering how to discern God’s call — and how to act on it — the book of Nehemiah can be a helpful place to begin.

Feel the Burden

Nehemiah opens with devastating news. Though many of God’s people were back in Jerusalem, opposition had left them discouraged and vulnerable. The remnant was “in great trouble and disgrace" (Nehemiah 1:3), and the city’s wall and gates lay in ruins.

Nehemiah responded, “When I heard these things, I sat down and wept. For some days I mourned" (Nehemiah 1:4).

As Nehemiah prayed and fasted, God deepened his conviction and clarified his call.

Nehemiah’s heart was broken. He felt the burden of God’s work left undone. Can you relate? I certainly can.

Did Nehemiah hear an audible voice? No.

Did he receive instructions in a dream? He didn’t.

But as Nehemiah prayed and fasted, God deepened his conviction and clarified his call. What I love about this story is how God placed a unique burden on Nehemiah at the right time and in the right place.

This calls us to consider what breaks our hearts — and what God might be calling us to do about it. 

Take the First Step

As an Israelite in exile, Nehemiah served the king of Persia as cupbearer. In this role, he was a trusted protector and advisor, constantly by the king’s side. For years, Nehemiah served faithfully.

But when he discerned God’s call to rebuild Jerusalem’s wall, he placed his position and influence in God’s hands. Standing before the king, Nehemiah made a bold request:

“If it pleases the king and if your servant has found favor in your sight, let him send me to the city in Judah where my ancestors are buried so that I can rebuild it" (Nehemiah 2:5).

Nehemiah wasn’t uniquely fearless. Like most of us, when taking an uncomfortable step for the Lord, he “was very much afraid" (Nehemiah 2:2). Yet even as he spoke with the king, Nehemiah “prayed to the God of heaven” (Nehemiah 2:4).

God does not call each of us in the same way—but He is certainly calling each of us to something.

The king granted his request, and Nehemiah recognized God’s hand at work: “The gracious hand of my God was on me" (Nehemiah 2:8).

What do you need to place into God's hands to get the courage to take that first step?

Trust God to Prepare the Way

How did an exiled cupbearer become one of the most influential leaders of God’s people?

On the surface, a cupbearer turned builder and governor may seem unlikely. But consider Nehemiah’s position in the king’s court. He would have witnessed military strategy meetings and political negotiations. He would have observed how a leader responds to opposition and crisis.

Though Nehemiah had no formal training to lead a nation through rebuilding, God had placed him in a position of lifelong preparation.

In Nehemiah, we see that God does not call each of us in the same way—but He is certainly calling each of us to something. When we feel a nudge in our spirit or a burden for the Lord’s work, we can pause, pray, and seek His wisdom. He will clarify the call.

So where is God calling you to lead or serve?

The burdens we feel for people may be the answer.

Will we take the first step?

Share this article:
Bennett Rolan

Bennett Rolan

Bennett Rolan joined the BSF staff in 2017 after working for several publications, Christian ministries, and nonprofits. She loves to combine her passion for God’s Word and her journalism and history background to share stories of God’s work in and through BSF. As a wife to a busy college football coach and a mom to four young children, BSF studies keep her relationship with the Lord grounded and focused. She loves to learn from fellow believers as God faithfully grows her each day.
See more blogs by Bennett Rolan

Stay connected with Bible Study Fellowship.

Enter your email to receive updates, encouragement, and helpful resources.

Submit a Comment

Our BSF staff approves each comment to maintain privacy and security. It may take 24-48 hours for your comment to be posted. Be sure to check back for replies from the author or other BSF members!

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

    Donna on March 30, 2026 08:50 AM

    I am so encouraged after reading the article. God is an “ On time God!”

    Higenyi on March 28, 2026 03:04 AM

    This is so wonderful and how i pray that you continue sending more of these for edification. Many times i have battled with plenty of questions especially when it comes to discerni ng God's call for me to do something or serve. May the team and the author be blessed and continue being ablessing to many of us through such sharing.

    Lisa on March 27, 2026 09:40 PM

    Please send me information about online study. I was blessed to have the privilege of attending your women's studies in person back when my son was a young. Since, I've been lost, I've been too busy, I've made excuses. But honestly, those were three of the best years of my life. I wish to become a part of that community and spiritual healing and fellowship, again. Thank you

    Meggie @ HQ on March 30, 2026 02:33 PM

    Lisa, we would love to have you join us again! You can find information about online groups here: https://join.bsfinternational.org/

    Miryam on March 27, 2026 12:19 PM

    I would like to study this book, please send it to me so I can share it with others close and abroad. Thanks Miryam B

    Meggie @ HQ on March 27, 2026 04:46 PM

    We would love to have you join our study! Find a class near you or an online group at https://join.bsfinternational.org/!

    Russell on March 27, 2026 09:59 AM

    Thank you for the bible study 🥲🕊️🤲

    Lisa on March 26, 2026 12:21 PM

    What a blessing! This article came at just the right time. I will be meeting with our Women's Ministry this evening. I will share this article. I am certain it will be just the "jumpstart" we need.

    Monica on March 26, 2026 10:46 AM

    Very well put, I have been encouraged by Nehemiah's spirit and attitude towards God's work.

    Alice on March 26, 2026 10:23 AM

    We have moved to a new place , l would like to lead others to Jesus , help in building a small Bible Study group.

    Meggie @ HQ on March 26, 2026 01:58 PM

    Love that! You could find a BSF class or online group at https://join.bsfinternational.org/ or start your own small group Bible study using BSF's WordGo app - free in your app store.

    Hilda on March 26, 2026 09:45 AM

    Very encouraging

    Duana on March 25, 2026 01:54 PM

    Ok

    Mary on March 25, 2026 03:40 AM

    God has called us to be present to those who may be going through a difficult situation nd we can respond to help by lending our sincere help for hearing what they are experiencing. By being present we can understand better what is on their mind and how they feel dealing with this situation. That to me is the best way to lead others to follow the road of renewal and acceptance.

    Arlin on March 25, 2026 01:03 AM

    Amen

    Yvonne on March 24, 2026 09:01 PM

    Nehemiah’s following God’s instructions help me to deepen my faith and to live a more righteous life.

    Sue on March 24, 2026 08:29 PM

    Have absolutely enjoyed the book of Nehemiah.

    Daniel on March 24, 2026 08:03 AM

    Beautifully explained and spiritually discerning. This is enlightening and resonates with my situation. I am happy for the confirmation because I have not interpreted and understood Nehemiah's account in this light. God Almighty bless you for this light. 🙏🙏🙏

    Esther on March 23, 2026 01:53 PM

    I have found this encouraging especially the statement that says God does not call each of us in the same way but He is certainly calling me to something. God will prepare me for His work.

    Annabelle on March 21, 2026 10:56 AM

    I wholeheartedly agree. I’ve had two specific experiences where I was so grieved in my heart for what was lacking in my church. I took a year to pray and get confirmed in the calling, then moved forward. It was precisely what the Lord wanted in that season for those churches and God blessed the ministries and edified the body of Christ. Hallelujah

    Melony on March 21, 2026 09:24 AM

    I love this! Especially the part where it says Nehemiah had no formal training to lead a nation through rebuilding, yet God had placed him in a position of lifelong training. Whatever work God has for us to do He will also prepare us! Thank you

    Christine on March 20, 2026 01:41 PM

    So encouraged by this article.

    Ann on March 20, 2026 12:12 PM

    I am in awe of how God places us where we need to be to prepare us for our part in His kingdom.

    Sandra on March 20, 2026 02:54 AM

    Very informative. It's nice to know that God recognize his children in different ways.

    Sylvia on March 19, 2026 09:38 PM

    I thoroughly enjoyed Ms. Rolan's article as I have enjoyed the study of Nehemiah. It has given me insight into leadership and kingdom building.

    Esther on March 19, 2026 04:42 PM

    This blog is quite encouraging. Sometimes I wait to hear an audible voice. However, Nehemiah is a model in being convicted after prayer and fasting. Such an eye opener.

    Rachel on March 19, 2026 01:32 PM

    Enjoyed the Blog. Thank you!

    Lucy on March 19, 2026 08:52 AM

    Great insights!

    Holly on March 18, 2026 04:58 PM

    thank you for these wise and encouraging words. Well put.

    Janice on March 18, 2026 03:55 PM

    Since I began in BSF a couple of years ago, I have been blessed more than I could ever imagine. God's Word came alive for me strongly, ministering and speaking to my heart, my spirit, my mind. I feel so much more alive in Christ as each of God's people in the Bible show me they are just like us. I have fallen more in Love with God and His purpose in each of our lives, direction comes. Thank you for your faithfulness in leading and hearing the call of God to minister to people worldwide. Not quite sure yet where God is taking me, I am Blessed. God Bless All of You

    Elizabeth on March 18, 2026 02:56 PM

    I am thankful to God for calling me to BSF, then a group leader. I have learned more of the bible then never before. In study Gods word, being in training with my beautiful sisters and friends on Saturday morning and being I group and learning from my ladies. I am beyond blessed by our Lord Jesus Christ may He receive all the glory for all He is doing in me for His kingdom.

    Stephen on March 18, 2026 01:03 PM

    Re: "God does not call each of us in the same way—but He is certainly calling each of us to something." YES, He is. And, it may take years and the calling may be callingS.

    Cheryl on March 18, 2026 12:28 PM

    What a great blog!! It speaks loudly to those os us already in a leadership role in BSF to recommit ourselves to this important tnwork that God has called is too, and also su h encouragement to those considering a leadership role or those new to leadership!! This is a blog I will save for future encouragement and confirmation!! Thank you, Bennett!! ♥️

    Ralph on March 18, 2026 08:36 AM

    Thanks for sharing message regarding additional insight into Nehemiah’s God directed journey.

    Cecilia on March 18, 2026 07:21 AM

    Book of Nehemiah is an encouragement to me and helps me see God working with imperfect but willing people to achieve his purpose. Couldn't have come at a better time for me.

    Chuck on March 18, 2026 05:33 AM

    Great Blog and the info will help me a lot, thanks

    Judith on March 18, 2026 03:59 AM

    What a piece! I need to be alert to the burden God places on my heart for it could be God directing me to serve him in that particular area. Lord Jesus I need clarity so that I don't end allover the place doing what will end up being trash! May I serve according to your will and purposes. Amen

    Noel on March 18, 2026 03:14 AM

    I enjoyed the blog very much, as Bennett compared us to Nehemiah and his followers as we too are called to accomplish tasks on this earth.

    Jennifer on March 18, 2026 02:29 AM

    Sometimes God calls us as he called Esther into a position to save an entire people. And other times he calls us to a unique position to speak truth and life to a single person. Both are worthy of obedience to Him.

    Erma on March 18, 2026 01:58 AM

    Your blog about Nehemiah is right on time for me. I will share it with a young lady I am mentoring to be a Sunday School teacher.

    Mary on March 18, 2026 01:55 AM

    This study - especially the book of Nehemiah - has been full of so much beautiful truth. Oh, to be like Nehemiah!

    T. Swanny Talbot on March 18, 2026 01:34 AM

    Sovereign God live forever and ever, our Lord Jesus live forever and ever. I come and wait, surrender before Your feet , humbly use me and teach me according to Your will, Your purpose to glorify You are the most Highest God, The Creator of heaven and earth, Thank You Father God, Amen!

    Doreen on March 18, 2026 01:17 AM

    Thank you for your insights and encouragement. Studying the book of Nehemiah is very enlightening for me. I will remain open and receptive to any "nudge" that I may feel in my spirit.

    Marcia on March 17, 2026 11:51 PM

    Inspiration! God is calling! Thanks for the encouragement as I ponder this situation! I’m listening silently! God is able to do the impossible!

    Joaquin Garcia. on March 17, 2026 11:47 PM

    Sin duda alguna este comentario es de gran bendición para todos estamos precisamente estudiando Nehemías. Translation: Without a doubt, this comment is a great blessing to all of us who are currently studying Nehemiah.

    Eunice on March 17, 2026 09:42 PM

    Thanks for the Word, we just studied Jeremiah what a coincidence, beautifully explained.